From temperature and menu pairings to how many bottles to buy, we have some tips to pulling off a perfect pour with every glass for you wedding! But is important that you choose varietals you and your fiancé enjoy, since wine can actually say something about you—even better if it’s part of your love story. There is essentially two things you need to think about when picking your wedding wine:

Firstly, do you need to think about the season?

Traditionally, there is a popular assumption is that a Autumn or Winter weddings automatically means red wine, just like a spring or summer celebration is synonymous with white wine. But actually, it doesn’t matter what time of year it is, just so long as it fits in with your menu. “Most people want to drink what they like whenever they want to, which explains why rosé has leapt from a springtime sipper to a year-round superstar,” says Anthony Giglio, wine director at The Centurion Lounge by American Express. “People like how it bridges white and red as somewhere in between.”

 

Your menu is the most important aspect

You don’t need a seasoned sommelier to suggest great wine and food pairings; it’s as easy as knowing that wines and dishes that carry similar flavors will complement each other. Eater Drinks editor Kat Odell suggests the following pairings:

Chicken – A red or a white that’s on the medium to lighter side is a safe bet.

Fish – Greek wines or other lighter, mineral-y whites go well with seafood.

Beef – A strong grenache or pinot noir (both reds) complements beef.

Pork – Go for a bolder white with pork, like a white Burgundy.

Overall, choosing well-balanced, trustworthy wines that can be matched with a variety of dishes will give you one less headache, and your guests will enjoy their meals even more.

 

Top Tips:

1. Make sure the temperature is right.

Even if you’re having your wedding reception on top of a snowy mountain in the dead of winter, serve all of your wine cold—that goes for red too. “Whites and sparkling should be served on ice. Even reds—particularly lighter ones—can benefit from half an hour in the fridge before service,” says Nicholas Jackson, Sotheby’s wine buyer. “While wine that’s too cold can warm up, warm wine is a loss from the beginning.” Sciaretta agrees that temperature control is important, noting that red wine should be served at 55 degrees and white wine somewhere in the high 40s. (If the bottle doesn’t need to breathe, keep it unopened until the last second, so the flavor isn’t lost.)

2. Use the one bottle per person rule of thumb.

So now that you know how much should be poured, how much wine do you need for the reception? “We work on the basis that for a whole evening, at least one bottle of wine per head should be counted on,” Jackson says. “And then add a cushion—if you’re expecting 150 guests, get 180 bottles. There’s nothing worse than running out of wine.” (Pro tip: Champagne also has eight pours per bottle. So if you’re planning a champagne toast for 150 guests but not offering it at the bar, you’ll only need 20 bottles.) Keep in mind that as long as the staff isn’t preopening bottles, the leftover wines can either be sold back into the venue’s inventory or taken home to be enjoyed during the honeymoon and beyond.

3. Always buy your wedding wine in bulk

To be safe, always speak to your venue’s catering or wine professional to make sure you’re getting the best deal, as well as ordering the correct amount of wine for your budget—but neither should compromise the quality, Giglio notes. While it’s the job of the venue’s catering director to offer you a wide variety of the least-expensive wines available, you should feel comfortable to step in and ask for less variety with a more thoughtful selection. Be prepared with a list of wines you both like to drink (be reasonable and choose bottles under $20, unless you have more room in your budget). If your wedding is in the same state as where you buy your wine regularly, your venue can likely order that wine for you, or at least try to accommodate your request—but it’s best to talk about this before you sign any contracts. And if you’re going with wine that your venue suggests, always do a tasting to make sure you like it and it fits with the foods you’ll be serving.